Have you ever considered that your past relationships could be deeply useful for creating the love you want to bring into your life?

Even if you feel that your past experiences have made it difficult for you to trust yourself or others, I want to invite you to explore another perspective with me.

In my twenties, I carried a heavy burden of shame. I had little to no examples of what healthy relationships should look like. The first person I fell in love with quickly turned dangerous, but I didn’t know then that I had a choice.

I believed that love meant staying, fighting, and making it work, no matter what. My early understanding of relationships was that they were full of conflict, and I constantly struggled to be seen and heard.

Eventually, I grew tired of the battles and found my way out, but my self-image was trashed. The hurtful words and endless conflicts left deep scars. I started to believe that I wasn’t worthy of a healthy, loving relationship.

It took me years to understand that this experience was not just about me.

For many women of color, we lack positive relationship models to guide us. Often, we rely on portrayals from movies or TV and spend a lot of time thinking about who we need to become to make ourselves worthy of love, rather than embracing who we truly are. Coaching with me puts an end to that pattern immediately.

And that’s why in my 1:1 coaching:

• We’ll examine your past relationships and patterns, addressing the shame or negative feelings you may still carry.  

• We’ll explore the relationship models you grew up with and how they may be influencing your dating life today.  

• Together, we’ll create a new empowering model based on who you are now and the type of relationship you desire.  

• We’ll spend time playing on a metaphorical playground to envision the future relationship you want to create.  

• Most importantly, I’ll challenge you to go out, meet new people, and create positive, fun experiences filled with possibility.

I want everyone to experience the kind of love that I now have—love I once believed was impossible and that I didn’t deserve.

After working together, you will:

• Learn how to date and attract a high-value partner.

• Enjoy the dating process and feel empowered by it.

• Gain clarity on what you truly want in a partner.

• Develop deep self-trust and the ability to evaluate potential partners for a healthy long-term relationship.

• Feel confident, empowered, and excited about dating.

I dare you to believe that this kind of love is possible for you. Take a moment right now to imagine the love you deeply long for—and know that it’s within reach.

If you’re ready to explore this journey, I invite you to reach out for a consultation to see if we’re a good match for coaching together.